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Overheard on Text: The Diversity Nobody Wants to Measure

Overheard on Text: The Diversity Nobody Wants to Measure

As colleagues from different generations (X and millennial), Marci Alboher and Duncan Magidson have been leading talks and workshops sharing their insights about working across generations. As they plan, they often text furiously, sharing ideas and reflections. In...

What Do Teen Leaders Want From Older Allies?

26 teens on what helps and hinders intergenerational collaboration

By | Nov 26, 2025

You’ve seen our recent studies on what younger leaders want from older allies, and what older leaders want from younger allies. 

Our newest study, What Teen Leaders Want—and Don’t Want—from Older Allies (coming December 3), turns to the next generation of changemakers, the youngest members of Gen Z. Over the past four months, we interviewed a diverse group of 26 teen leaders, ages 12 to 19, from across the country to find out what they believe helps and hinders intergenerational collaboration.

These teen leaders are already shaping their communities. A few examples:

  • Leena Albinali was 14 when she created an intergenerational summer camp taught by grandmothers in Fullerton, California. 
  • Molly McAlvanah was 16 when she became a poll worker in Kensington, Maryland and canvassed door-to-door to support candidates and issues she believed in. 
  • Elijah Lee became a community activist at 10, leading his first child abuse awareness march in Roanoke Rapids, North Carolina. Now 17, Elijah has helped draft over 40 pieces of legislation in Virginia designed to support child abuse survivors and empower young people.

Teen leaders “have made it clear how much they have to offer their communities and our democracy,” the report notes. “When adults leave them out or marginalize them or just talk too much, they leave so much talent on the table.”

The report, which captures teen leaders’ voices in words and video, includes five key insights, recommendations, and a conversation guide.

Register now for a Dec. 11 briefing on the study’s findings with a panel of teens.

 

The five insights are:

1. We’re not your children.

“Adults sometimes only know how to relate to young people through the lens of their own kids, and that can get messy fast.”
— Kayla Pilgrim

2. Listen. Period.

“Sometimes adults jump in with advice when all we needed was someone to hear us out.”
 — Lucinda Mattingly

3. Don’t invite us for optics.

“Bring us in to build something real.”
— Molly McAlvanah

4. We’ll match your energy.

“If you come in confident and real, we’ll match that. That’s how you build trust.” 
— Kate Schenk

5. We want the power to change things.

“Sometimes we need a translator for how power works.” 
— Laura Gomez

The report issues a call to adults and youth-serving organizations “to think differently – to move beyond one-way mentorship models and toward genuine, two-way partnerships where teens and older allies work side by side for change.”

Supported by the Bezos Family Foundation with additional funding from The Eisner Foundation, the study is part of a larger effort to help youth-serving organizations prepare teens to work with older adults to strengthen civic life and community. 

In the coming months, we’ll launch a new community of practice for youth-centered organizations eager to advance cogeneration in civic life and announce a new fellowship for older and younger leaders who want to develop their public voices together. Stay tuned!

A final note: CoGen Impact Fellow Dillon St. Bernard is the study’s author and producer of the accompanying video. Dillon, 25, is Chief Creative Officer of Team DSB, a collective supporting the digital communications and cultural strategy needs of purpose-driven brands, organizations, and creators who ignite movements.