Simple question: Do you miss human connection when you use self-checkout at the grocery store? Complex question: How is cogeneration threatened by AI, profit-driven “efficiencies,” and automation — and what can we do about it? Allison Pugh, author of the book The Last...
On Friday, May 15, I had the great honor to address the 2026 graduates of Drew University, including the undergraduate College of Liberal Arts, the Theological School, and the Caspersen School of Graduate Studies. I'm very grateful to Drew's remarkable President...
Across the country, young people and older people are stepping up as civic leaders. But too often, they do this critical work with peers, in age-segregated spaces. Young people work without the benefit of older generations who bring lived experience, networks, and a...
Is your organization ready to tackle one of the toughest but most transformative shifts in intergenerational collaboration? In this session, you’ll hear from three leaders spearheading efforts to diversify board involvement. This will be a learning-in-public...
The Eames Institute of Infinite Curiosity advances the legacy of designers Ray and Charles Eames and inspires “creative problem-solving that positively shapes our world.” Today, the Institute named CoGenerate Co-CEO Eunice Lin Nichols to its new Curious 100 list. In this essay, Eunice explains the role curiosity played in her own journey and the potential of both curiosity and cogeneration to connect us.
We’re living in the most age-diverse time in human history, with the same number of people who are 7, 17 and 70. At the same time, we’re also the most age-segregated. Our institutions, infrastructure and policies are literally designed to keep generations apart.
That’s brought on a host of problems: social isolation and loneliness, ageism, generational fingerpointing, and a sense that we just don’t have anything in common – all during a time when we’re facing societal problems that are too big for any one generation to solve alone.
It’s why I’m obsessed with all things intergenerational – and more specifically cogenerational. What our society needs now more than anything, is the “co” (Latin for “with”). Things like collaboration, connection, community. You can’t have a “with” life without curiosity about the other person – the kind of curiosity that makes you lean in and want to know more.
Because every older person was once young, and every young person will get older, I believe cogeneration can actually be a short bridge to connecting across difference. Ever-changing but also connected over time, age naturally invites curiosity.
Anybody who’s further along in life knows something that might be helpful to me, and I know something that might be helpful to the person who’s coming up behind me. Our combined perspectives, skillsets and networks are exactly what’s needed in this moment.
I found my way into intergenerational work in my twenties when I ran a program that brought teams of older volunteers into public schools to tutor and mentor kids. All of a sudden, I found myself surrounded by not just one or two elders, but hundreds of them. My oldest volunteer, Mr. Shapiro, was 97. These elders became like surrogate grandmas and grandpas to me, my young staff, and thousands of kids. And we helped the older adults stay connected to community and purpose.
As a 25-year-old, I got really curious about this mysterious thing called “aging,” something many of my peers seemed to fear at best, and loathe at worst. For sure, they were doing their best to avoid it.
I was blessed with a different path: I got a front row seat to the realities of aging – health challenges, financial anxiety, grief and loss, to be sure. But I also saw hundreds of older adults making amazing, lasting contributions in their later years, often in partnership with young people. It showed me that purpose and meaning are lifelong pursuits, and that my best years of contribution could still be ahead.
Fast forward. I’m turning 50 this year, and unlike my age-peers, I’ve been waiting almost 30 years for this moment! I like to think of myself as an elder-in-training. The spaces I love most are cogenerational, where we come as we are, with all our curiosities about one another, and find that what – and who – we are, the age we are, the life experiences we’ve had, are exactly what’s needed. By leaning into the beauty of interdependence, we become extended family to one another.
Best of all, when I connect across generations and tap into the perspective of people much younger and older than I am, my learning horizon expands, my capacity for care and concern beyond myself expands. That feels like the bullseye of curiosity.