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Event Recording: Generations Across Borders

Event Recording: Generations Across Borders

https://youtu.be/V1-_uDN4E9M What can we learn about ourselves and each other when we take the time to listen to stories across generations, cultures, and borders? For author Ebony Walden, an eight-month journey through 15 countries became an opportunity to explore...

8 Questions to Start a Conversation Across Age Divides

8 Questions to Start a Conversation Across Age Divides

Intergenerational collaboration starts with our ability to be in genuine dialogue with one another. Use these questions to have a meaningful conversation with someone you’re just getting to know or someone you’d like to know better. Listen well and be vulnerable.The...

7 Insights from an Age-Diverse Duo Running an Age-Diverse Fellowship

7 Insights from an Age-Diverse Duo Running an Age-Diverse Fellowship

When we first began planning the CoGen Voices Fellowship, we knew we'd face a few challenges. The group of 21 community changemakers was intentionally diverse — by age (15 to 81!), race, location, work, experience, and more. We'd have to meet many different needs and...

Need a Guide To Spark Productive, Intergenerational Conversations?

Try this companion to our report, What Young Leaders Want — And Don’t Want — From Older Allies

By | May 21, 2024

A group of young leaders who participated in the study after a focus group at AARP headquarters in Washington D.C.

In March, we released our latest report, What Young Leaders Want — And Don’t Want — From Older Allies, summarizing what 31 Gen Z and Millennial leaders had to say about working with older people to solve pressing problems — aka “cogeneration” — and how it can be improved. 

Many people told us that reading the report prompted them to start conversations with folks older and younger than they are, which is great news! To make it easier for more people to do the same, we created this Conversation Guide. 

The guide includes a brief overview followed by 15 discussion questions and a list of suggested opportunities to use the guide to start intergenerational conversations. The guide also includes links to resources for you to explore.

The report is a fairly quick read and includes eight key insights that stretch far beyond predictable stereotypes. They include: 

  1. Generational conflict? Not always.
  2. Personal connection before collaboration. Always.
  3. No one wants to be dismissed because of their age.
  4. Cash over compliments.
  5. Young leaders aren’t afraid to talk about mental health.  
  6. Productive conflict? Digital natives have few models.
  7. “Paying your dues” isn’t working.
  8. The future of leadership is cogenerational.

The report also includes dozens of thought-provoking quotes, like the one below, from the young leaders committed to working across generations for change. It concludes with nine actionable recommendations. 

“I’ve encountered older people unwilling to consider my perspective because ‘it’s the way it’s always been done’ or ‘it takes time and resources to make a change,’ or they don’t want to admit that what they’ve been doing isn’t very productive.”

— Emily Garcia-Green, chief youth development officer at BridgeUSA

We hope the report and companion Conversation Guide help you build intergenerational conversation, connection and collaboration in your community.

This research was funded by AARP with additional support from The Eisner Foundation.